Shaped by the Past - Part IV

By Christine

My family sure didn’t have as adventurous life as Christian’s!

My father’s grandfather’s name was François, and he was born in 1865 in Gilly sur Loire, from a family of farmers. Francois came to Le Creusot, the nearby booming industrial town, in search of a better life. He was hired at the great forge in 1881, and then transferred to the artillery workshop, producing weapons for the government. He worked there until his death in 1919.

Forge, Le Creusot

My father’s father, Joseph, was born in Le Creusot on November 8^th, 1902. His mother, Elisa, was an orphan. She died from liver cancer on October 18^th, 1914, when Joseph was only twelve. Her terrible sufferings marked him profoundly for ever. He had only one brother, Francis, who was 10 years older than him. Two other children, born in the middle, had died at an early age. So Joseph grew up with his father Francois. His personality wasn’t the happiest one. He thought that a woman’s job was to stay home and that she shouldn’t even read because it was time stolen from the care of the household. He became a metalworker and supervisor at Le Creusot's Schneider’s factory. 

Joseph at the factory

He wasn’t rich, and I remember that my grandparents didn’t have a bathroom in their second floor apartment. You had to go to the outhouse in the garden. Speaking of gardens, he was a very good gardener, and had lots of vegetables, fruit, and flowers. Dahlias were his specialty.

He never had a car, but when he retired, Joseph got a moppet and he would come visit us on it!

He loved fencing and was an incredibly talented handyman. He even built a radio from scratch. I also remember an incredible hair comb he had made from steel, and a beautiful engraved pie serving knife with a horn handle (I still have it). He also loved fishing and was skilled at painting.

I have at least two good memories of my grandfather. For Christmas, he would offer each of the five of us a 5 francs coin that he had polished and made all shiny. He was also excellent at making black currant liquor, from his own bushes of black currant. The treat was that we were always allowed to taste a small glass, even though it was so strong! I loved how it would run warm down your throat!

He had married Lucie on January 20^th, 1925. 

Joseph and Lucie on their wedding day

Lucie had lost her mother too, when she was about 4 years old. Her family was from the north of France, just like General De Gaulle’s mother, who bore the same last name as her. This led me to write to General de Gaulle when I was 9 to tell him that we were from the same family! He answered me and I still have his handwritten note!

Lucie was the baby of eight children. They had moved to  Blanzy, not far from Le Creusot, on a small farm. Her older sisters had very whimsical ways of taking care of her. To calm her when their mother was working in the fields, they would put wine in her bottle! 

Lucie in the center

Very young, she became a housekeeper for a doctor’s family who taught her “good manners.” Then she helped her older sister with her small grocery store. Her sister thought it was time to get her married and arranged her meeting with Joseph. She was a good natured and cheerful person who absolutely loved children. Joseph and Lucie had only two sons, my father, Georges, and Henri. Lucie adored her sons and probably spoiled them a lot, doing everything for them. It was a real heartbreak for her when they got married. When her sisters visited unexpectedly (no phone!), it was always a feast of laughing and fun! She used to quilt heavy blankets to help bring some more money to the household. 

Joseph and Lucie with their two boys

She was the spiritual soul of the family and took her children to church while my grandfather practiced only for great feast days and Bishop’s visits. She would also ride her bicycle everywhere. During the war, she would ride her bike across the line of demarcation to get food to my uncle, Henri, who was at the seminary in free France 40 kilometers away.  She was even searched by the Nazis once. She died at 56. I was not yet 2 when she died, so sadly, I do not remember her.
 

Me in my Grand Mother's arms

Later on my grandfather remarried a woman from Southwestern France, Simone. We all loved her with her singing accent! But Le Creusot was not a cheerful town for her light spirit and she was never happy there.

Even though Joseph had not been a Churchgoer during his youth, he ended his life as a very practicing Catholic and his death in 1971 was a beautiful testimony of faith.

Shaped by the Past, Part III

By Christian

It’s during the liberation of Alsace, in the winter of 1945, that my Dad met my Mom in a little day dancing/coffee/pub that’s still in business to this day. I don’t believe World War II happened so that my parents could meet, but really, what were the odds that these two should meet? The Lord works in mysterious ways!

The place where my parents met

After he met my Mom, my Dad still had to go to Germany with the French led Moroccan troops before he could come back for her, in that beautiful little village of Eguisheim, cradle of Pope St Leon IX (11th century). 

Pope St. Leon IX's birth place

My Mom’s whole family lived in the big village farm. It was built in 1684 by the Ginglinger family. 

My cousin, Pierre-Henri Ginglinger, still lives there. One of his sons, Matthieu, the twelfth generation of the same vineyard owners, started a two million euro renovation in 2012 for his own family (Click here to see Matthieu on the French TV a few weeks ago.)

The Family house before renovation

So where can I start with my Mom’s side of the family, the Ginglingers?

Their house had been built as part of one of the two gates of the village. I was told that it used to be a relay, where people would switch their horses, and also an Inn. Mainly, though, it was a farm with huge barns and cellars. The farms, until after World War II, were self-sufficient; wine grapes were the main crop, but they also had cows, horses, pigs, and poultry. So my Great grandfather was a farmer, growing potatoes, wheat, barley, vegetables, and fruit trees. 

The Family's wine flyer with my cousins Marie-Jo and Pierre-Henri

He was also the mayor of the village; his best friend was his assistant. Since the fathers had such a good friendship, their two sons, who were the same age, became good friends too.

Alsace is a very rich province of France. 

Arriving in Eguisheim, with the ruins of 3 castles on top of the hill.

 It has been occupied by the Germans on and off many times during the past 2,000 years. The Prussians also invaded Alsace during the Prussian war and settled there from 1870 to 1918. It was a terrible time of forced Germanization of the Alsatians, who were French in their heart of hearts. 

Illustration by Hansi

Now my grandfather, Henri, already had a reputation; he was very strong, enjoyed fist fighting in local festivals, and was a tall, handsome, hard working young man.

He was tired of the German occupation and wanted to leave the village. With his buddy, he decided to play some tricks on the occupants.
One day, they tied a large French flag to the top of a very tall cypress in the cemetery, right in the Alsace plain so it could be seen from miles away. Of course, to make it more fun, they uncoiled barbed wire on their way down the tree.

The German Feldwebel didn’t have a great sense of humor. He suspected the two boys, but had no proof, so he just gave a warning to the Mayor and his assistant. Another day, when the Feldwebel opened his shutters, he came face to face with a hanging mannequin in German uniform, a big sausage as his nose and sauerkraut as his hair. This time he didn’t need any proof and gave my grandfather and his friend a choice: prison, or five years in the German navy.

This is how this young Alsatian farmer got to go around the world several times on the huge sailing boats of the gracious Emperor Kaiser Wilhelm II. 

My grand-father Henri

He had so many fights aboard that he remained a simple sailor and extended his stay by several years. During a ship inspection, Princess Wilhelmina pointed her riding crop at the missing button on his uniform. To the silent question he answered, “It’s an extra buttonhole, your Highness.” She laughed and he didn’t go to jail that time.

When he finally came back, he married his cousin (twice removed) from across the street, Josephine. 

Joséphine and Henri

He became the new mayor and never left his village again. They had five children; Henri, Maria, Marguerite, Léon. My Mom, Jeanne, was the baby.

World War II broke out early in Alsace, and the Germans moved in once again.

My grandfather had a broken ankle and could hardly walk. When the Panzers rolled in, because he was the mayor, and his farm was the gate of the village, he stood in the middle of the main street, his World War I rifle in his hands.

The Germans were nice to him and told him to go back home, that the war was already over. One of my uncles, Léon, who was the second born boy, fled right away and joined the French Free Army. After the defeat of Nazi Germany, he decided farming was not his call; he remained in the military and was sent to Indochina, later renamed Vietnam.

 
My uncle Henri was the eldest son, very strong and hardworking. He stayed on to manage the farm after the war broke out. 

My uncle working in the vineyards

My aunt Maria went to Marseilles, in the Free France, as a nurse, and died of cancer during the war.
Henri didn’t manage the farm very long; he was caught by the SS and brought to the Kommandantur in Colmar, three miles from Eguisheim, in the early days of the war. They had found a letter from his Free Army brother on him.

My Mom, Jeanne, was only 17 at the time; she wasn’t afraid, and was very determined! She walked right up there and pleaded for her brother so earnestly that she got to take him out of the SS' hands.

It didn’t work as well the second time, when they caught him picking up a British propaganda flyer from the road. Henri was sent to the only concentration camp in France, the Natzweiler-Struthof, until the end of the war.

He survived the war and came back long after the armistice. At 6’2’’, he weighted only 50 kg. 

Drawing by Henri Gayot
from the Struthof camp

Since my grandfather couldn’t walk and my uncle was gone, my Mom managed the farm by herself, with the help of Polish prisoners supplied by the Germans. In the last days of the war, she saw the leftovers of the German army: 16 and 17 year old kids, getting drunk before going to the last battles with knives as their only weapons. Fewer and fewer of them returned each time, until there were no more.

This area of France was one of the last places to be liberated in February 1945.

Remember that the allies had landed in Normandy in June 1944.

My Mom was now 23 years old. She met my Dad while the French, Moroccan, and US armies marched through Alsace to Germany in 1945; they got married in October 1946. 

Rue des fossés, Eguisheim